The thumb/nose picturing was rather for a joke.

I was trying to be sensitive in case you did actually have a massive schnoz.

If manufacturers are not willing to release that part separately FT can't do much for us either.

I agree with you about 2 mods rather than one whole kit... Eleaf have released the connector separately to other stores but for some reason they only seem to appear in Europe. Unfortunately it's only available from online shops so I can't link them here but you can search for 'GS Baby Magnetic Connector', 'GS Baby Magnetic Adapter' or 'Eleaf Basic Magnetic Connector' to bring up results for your request.
I haven't got crayon around so here are a couple of photos for you to use: